I always ate great food at home. The spaghetti sauces my father made, that cooked for four or five hours, were phenomenal. I never knew what canned soup was. People get overwhelmed by recipes, but like anything in life, you have to go through the process by
making it so it will become easy and second nature to you. Like a good connoisseur of fabulous wine, you don’t become a good connoisseur (of food) until you taste over and over again and understand taste. Taste food to see where you want to direct it when making it. Learn how to taste and what good food is. Indulge, but save it for food that is great. Don’t waste the beauty of eating and tasting on food that is not worth it. Buy good quality ingredients and trust your supplier.
Create a welcoming atmosphere (with candlelight, dim lights, a lighted fireplace, background music, the smell of fresh garlands and cider with cinnamon sticks) and a feeling of comfort. Choose colors that are inviting. Guests need to be transported – a break from their daily lives.
On the menu are:
Prosciutto and figs
Italian cheese plate
Arugula salad
Cioppino served over polenta
Italian Stuffed tomatoes
Cheese stuffed manicotti
Grilled lamb chops
Sudburian blueberry pie
Zabaglione
Moose milk
Make the base for the cioppino, a family recipe, the night before and refrigerate to let the flavors blend. Before serving, heat up and then add the seafood – clams, mussels, scallops, monkfish chunks, squid (only if desired). Watch carefully to avoid overcooking. Add the crab and shrimp last as they require just a few minutes cooking time. Although they are expensive, they are necessary to impart flavor.
Serve over polenta (or linguine). Be sure to use fine cornmeal and stir constantly. Make the polenta a day in advance and refrigerate. Before the party, run through a spaghetti strainer (it thickens) to break it up. Reheat (about 5 to 7 minutes), adding a little water as it heats up. Sprinkle with grated Parmesan before serving.
Cook everything fresh, but prepare as much in advance as possible.
The homemade marinara sauce for the manicotti – mom’s recipe and the simplest in the world – can be tossed in the freezer to also use in veal, chicken or eggplant parmesan, pizza, lasagna and more.
Prosciutto and figs are easily assembled the morning of the party and kept refrigerated and covered. Substitute cantaloupe or persimmon or even Italian cheeses for the figs, if desired.
For a cheese platter, pick up assorted Italian cheeses at Whole Foods Market, Andrew’s Cheese Shop (Santa Monica) or The Cheese Store of Beverly Hills. Don’t be afraid to ask for suggestions. Serve for an appetizer with olives and crackers – or for dessert with a dessert wine. Cheese is my chocolate.
Enjoy!